Saturday, February 14, 2009

The Dilemma Of Appropriate Boundaries

This is a portrait of my older son, Gabe, when he was 4 yrs. old. We created this together - a collaborative effort. Gabe, especially as a young’n, was very naturally full of his own bigness. And having a big heart to match made this outgoing enthusiasm, and happy engagement with life and people, a real pleasure more than anything. But no matter how beautiful his vibrant being is, this still needs to be appropriately contained at times… and then there’s that pesky personal space reality getting in the way when it comes to friends and “strangers“. So he and I decided to paint him in the context of these boundary issues.

In the painting, Gabe is striding away from the big red square of a boundary behind him… free with easy confidence. I asked Gabe what it’s like for him to be reined-in and contained, when he really doesn’t want to have to break his stride. He explained in two ways… one in words which said, that it’s like a dragon inside him wanting to cry out in fiery protest, and the other he drew at the bottom of the painting:

Looks like a pale, incapacitated, flat on his back, little person contained within the boundary to me.

I bring this up because it seems like such a key thing that adults and children have to contend with. And I tend to think it’s a major component of both a concerted effort to anchor pain into the human condition as well as potentially being an important bottom-line to how we can lift us up out of the insistence on this pain of broken will and strait-jacketing being a needed and integral part of childrearing.

There’s much to be said and explored concerning parenting efforts and the respectful embrace of appropriate boundaries. I’m hoping that people will chime right in with their thoughts here. But for now, I’ll offer these links to the great work some people
are doing to address this issue:

This is a link to a story NPR aired about an activist's efforts in Harlem - very important work here, and so worth a listen: http://www.npr.org/templates/story/story.php?storyId=94977387

I was looking for a link to this new major study I heard about through BBC world news recently, which the English have done on understanding what’s behind children being so unhappy these days. It’s bound to be controversial, and did not bode well for parents, but I wasn’t able to find it! If anyone can post a link to that here, please do. I did run across this link though:

News - Health - Violent imagery 'harms children' . Last updated: 18 Feb 2005
The team of researchers reviewed six major studies on the effects of media violence on children.
news.bbc.co.uk/1/hi/health/4275131.stm

Science, Philosophy, or Magic?

Irv and I had an interesting conversation that danced around where science ends and philosophy begins. What I’d like to offer by including this, is the cracking open of a possible window into a way of looking at things which finds value in a more full spectrum of lenses… could be a good way to get a handle on the whole picture. Seems to me, that different perspectives don’t have to over-ride each other in an effort to rise to the top as the one most right, and so the only one to garner respect. Certainly, there are many excellent and wonderful findings which are very much due the greatest respect, but simply that those understandings which ring true to maybe even just one person, is also due respect, and could well be the one missing piece to finding a more complete understanding.


Hi Irv,
I've been wanting to ask you about something, and I'm hoping you won't take this as an affront. A few days ago, I ran across a post you made to DDW which finished off with this sentence: "Hopefully we can enjoy a new era where science is better understood and extended a greater respect." This kind-of struck me and interests me. I didn't realize that you feel science is not highly respected. Although I understand that where I'm coming from does challenge the strictly scientific perspective here and there, and the blatant disregard of science in the Bush administration, might give rise to some scientific angst, I get the impression that, in many ways, science is currently still "king of the hill", and very highly respected by the majority. How is it that you'd like to see science better understood? ...I'd like to be better educated about this. I really don't mean to be disrespectful of science. Is part of it that you're frustrated with groups like the Christian Taliban, and would like to see the manipulation of people's views and "free will" being harnessed to suit the unscientific ends of church dictators dispelled by the apparently more just and accurate dictates of science? ...just as a for instance.

I'd really like to understand your point of view here better.
Best wishes - Anne


Irv wrote:
Hello Anne, always good to hear from you.


When I wrote..

"Hopefully we can enjoy a new era where science is better understood and extended a greater respect."

I was thinking almost exclusively about posters in NPR. Even very smart people demonstrate with remarkable regularity how little they understand the methodology of science and what it has contributed to human knowledge.

Furthermore, I encountered one fellow, Paul Cook I believe his name was, who was of the opinion that it is healthy to have a skepticism of both religion and science. I think of this attitude as a "New Age" Atheism that seems very undesirable. Proposing that science created gas chambers, nuclear bombs and DDT is just "plain ign'ant" as an argument that we should be skeptical of science. But I encountered that very opinion here on the NPR website. I don't think this is an exceptional example. The new minister for the environment? the Nobel Prize winner in physics, he too, has made specific comments that most Americans plainly don't understand science.

I stand by the comment. While you may have a different perspective, I feel it is a genuine problem that many in the US don't extend science enough respect. I've seen Frankenstein used as an adjective to describe some aspects. Does that strike you as enlightened? Science has been sullied under Bush, maybe for longer. It is time to recognize the problem and change it. Obama himself has expressed this opinion.

Best regards.

Anne wrote:
Okay, I'm trying to get on the same wave-length with you here... don't mean to be daft but, if I'm one of those Americans who doesn't understand science, then how would you put it to me so I can understand? Is it just a matter of understanding that science is a particular type of tool which has very specific guidelines of use? And so, like the coarse analogy of: "it's not guns that kill, it's people", are you pointing to how "science didn't create gas chambers, nuclear bombs and DDT, people did"? That you can be an engineer without necessarily employing scientific means? Sorry if I'm just not getting the point, Irv, but I'd like to.
Thanks, Anne

Irv wrote:
Hello Anne, Yes, what you wrote here is what I'm thinking...


Is it just a matter of understanding that science is a particular type of tool which has very specific guidelines of use? And so, like the course analogy of: "it's not guns that kill, it's people", are you pointing to how "science didn't create gas chambers, nuclear bombs and DDT, people did"?<<

But there is at least one important distinction that needs to be made so that science as a 'tool' and a gun as a 'tool' are not the same thing.

Science was originally developed as a method specifically to benefit and increase human knowledge. Unless I am mistaken, guns were originally developed as a weapon of war specifically to kill people. We know science can be abused, and guns can be appropriately used. However... When you compare the relative contribution of the positive aspects of each, science is just light years ahead. Given this element and science's clear superior benefits I think your analogy is not a sufficient comparison. But it certainly would work for plenty of people, including the those I criticized in my previous post.

Anne wrote:
So Irv - about the "opinion that it is healthy to have a skepticism of both religion and science. I think of this attitude as a "New Age" Atheism that seems very undesirable." I'm very interested in what you mean by New Age Atheism, and wonder why this is undesirable? I'm just plain curious about what New Age means to people... I'm sure this varies.

And one little observation about the contribution of science being light years ahead of that of the gun... if held side by side today, this is hard to argue with. But if you put each of these things in the context of the time they were introduced to man in a prominent way, you might be able to argue that, what the gun was able to accomplish for man in terms of putting food on the table, as well as through war and self defense, might just be comparable to what science has allowed us to accomplish in this day. It's certainly a quantum leap from one to the other, but maybe there's some other development on the rise which will actually dwarf the basis of scientific practice as we know it now.

If I have the time in a bit, I'll present something I've thought about for some years, but haven't had any science friends to pass it by for feed-back.
Thanks for tossing these things around with me.
- Anne

Irv wrote:
Anne, thanks for your post. Interestingly both the gun and science are relatively new on the scene compared the total history of modern humans. Both appeared less than 1000 years ago. But I've heard that theory that 'guns and steel' is what propelled civilization to where it is now. I think that may be idolizing the gun a little. Go to wiki and look up 'gun' and you will see a message saying there needs to be clean up and the article doesn't meet wikipedia's standards. That suggests to me people don't care too much about the history of the gun. If you compare that gun entry with any scientific topic, I think you will see a huge difference. (But I'm only assuming.)


Anne wrote:
I completely agree with you, Irv. The gun side of the analogy is almost stone-age (on a feeling scale, not a time scale) compared with science. And I know that, in terms of time, the gun is but a blink of an eye before our current experience with science. I didn't mean to dispute what you were saying as much as just try to look at these two within their relative environments. The very coarse, or base environment the gun belongs in, is certainly different than the particular degree of refinement which science dictates/requires.

And in terms of the context of these things within the total history of modern humans - if you were to make a chart that showed the evolution of human development and use of tools, all the way up to what we're capable of now, due to scientific means, I can't help but think it might look a lot like Al Gore's charted data on global warming. There's some point on both charts where the scale, once it starts gaining ground, quickly gets to a point which escalates so dramatically that it's a bit mind-boggling in terms of ramifications.

Irv wrote:
The "New Age Atheism" is a term I'm using to describe a phenomenon I believe I see forming. It probably isn't original. It is a convenient term. Historically, atheists have been inherent skeptics. I get a sense, and I think others are getting a similar sense, that there is a modern group of atheists that are only selectively skeptical. That is, they are only skeptical about what they want to be skeptical about. I find this selective skepticism troublesome. That is what I'm trying to say. For me, it is just another form of religion wrapped up in a new package. I was in a book store and saw a book that appeared to address this issue, going by the title anyway. I didn't look at it closely, but I think the author may have been making a case for regular religion.


Nevertheless, I have my radar up as well.

Anne wrote:
Well, I managed to get all my end-of the-day chores done. So now I'll try to get at my take on the "New Age Atheism" angle. Thanks for clarifying this for me. I've been thinking about this too, but from a somewhat different perspective. (What's new, ay?) So I'm getting that the scientific, or thoroughly reasoned, point of view wants the historically skeptical atheist to assess all things with equal skepticism instead of only those things that strike the individual as worthy of skepticism. I see the fairness of this even-handed approach and it's effort at objectivity. But I've been looking at what the value might be of assessing carefully specifically those things that strike the individual as somehow wrong, or out of place. I think there's real insight to be gained by grasping what it is about a thing which doesn't resonate as real or true (whether it is or not) and penetrating this to the point of finding a personal solution for what does appear to be more right for them, as a way to further their unique position on and understanding of things, and how they fit into the picture. It seems to me that, the more a person levels the playing field (so to speak) by unplugging the charge things hold for them, systematically, then they might be that much more able to truly see things for what they are without the personal distortions of bias, one way or the other. It's complicated, potentially messy and problematic, as you say, and certainly a more organic process than the deliberately sterile scientific environment, but I think still a viable one. I'm thinking this might look like a bunch of absurd gobbldy-gook to the science-mind purist... but oh-well... just observations.

There's something about this which parallels the other question I'd like to look at (which isn't quite so complicated), but no time for that today. Later then... thanks Irv, - Anne

Anne wrote:
So Irv, if you can bear with me a bit longer... I think I have a grasp on the point and basic aim of science as it applies cause and effect, through a series of tests, in a very measured and consistent way in order to gather accurate information, which is free from bias and the idiosyncratic nature of the human perspective. And I can see that trying to line this up with the possible value and even viable outcome of "New Age Atheism" in some way, or trying to compare this clean scientific approach with the completely organic and deliberately biased approach observed (awkwardly) in my last post, probably seems completely absurd. Like, "what were you thinking!?" putting these two next to each other, as if they can even be compared??? And maybe these two approaches don't have anything to offer each other, but if I lay out this one example, they might both have a part to play...

A few years ago (maybe 5), I heard a spot on NPR that focused on Jane Goodall and her work. I know that Jane has done fantastic work with chimps/apes for many years, and is very highly respected, and I've always enjoyed any program heard or seen about her good work. I get the impression she is very careful to make sure she follows scientific guidelines very closely in order to assure accuracy and maintain the integrity of the work. I was struck by one example she gave of just how hard it is to maintain that scientific objective. It went something like this:

She was observing some small chimps (I don't remember whether they were a smaller species, or just young), and she was right there close, since she'd already been accepted by them as a regular in those parts. They were just doing their peaceful foraging thing when some other larger chimps (or maybe another primate, don't remember) entered the scene. There was a worrisome scuffle which lead to one smaller chimp being more-less caught by the intruders, while the others ran off. This one chimp, in Jane's view, was clearly being harassed and tormented by these others, and a number of times tried to get Jane to come help save her/him... but being the true scientist that she was/is, Jane did not intervene. Jane went on to say that this was the first of a growing trend that she hadn't seen previously, but which did grow to be a disturbing reality in the forest.

It struck me right away, that Jane's adherence to scientific protocol, in her attempt to not have any effect on the subject of her study, had in fact done the opposite. At that point, she had already been accepted into their community. She might have been a very passive member, but still a part of the community more than if she were truly out of the picture in a way that the chimps had no awareness of Jane being present at all. So in this instance, Jane herself may have been (unwittingly) the first example of a larger, more capable member of the community just sitting and watching this torment, and deliberately not doing what would have been the norm within members of the community. It may actually have been Jane herself that set this new president, which then took hold, and grew.

Now, of course this could be wrong. But if it were right, this would be an example where looking at things scientifically from within the experiment itself, by actually deliberately becoming a completely natural and integrated part of the experiment rather than maintaining a more disembodied position outside of the studied environment, would actually offer a more truly disaffected reality, and greater understanding. Jane wanted to help the chimp in trouble. It was very hard for her to not intervene. If she had gone with that natural instinct to do what any other larger member of that community would have done in that situation, I wonder how this would have effected the way aggressive acts like these played out from that point on.

So Irv, I'm just trying to understand better the different angles of scientific application. If this is all just hog-wash in your opinion, I'd love to know that. I want to hear the different arguments that these observations might bring up. Can you offer any?

Thanks very much - Anne

Irv wrote:
Hello Anne, a very interesting story about Jane Goodall. I too respect her work greatly. Obviously she has contributed a lot to our knowledge of our closest relatives. Something like 98% of our DNA is compatible with chimps, so I've read. Going by that information, if you were to untwist the double-helix strand, pull it apart down the rungs for both chimp and human and re-splice the corresponding strands between the two species, most of the rungs on the ladder would match. Something like that.


Back to methodology; just because someone is very careful to observe scientific method, doesn't mean the experiment/observation/research is perfect. It was conducted by a human and it is possible things got tainted in an unforeseen or extraordinary way. So, what Goodall has done is wonderful, but it may not be perfect as you've implied may be the case (I think) You're point that she may have essentially been part of the group is possible. I assume, if this was the case, she was not considered a dominant member. Moreover, we must remind ourselves that even if she was considered a member, it was not her place to apply what would be considered appropriate human behaviour in this context. One of the criticism you frequently encounter, particularly from those who don't have an understanding of science at all, is that we humans are trying to force our ideas/perspective/psychology/etc. on animals. There is a lot of knee-jerk reaction against any research that involves them. I think a lot of the discomfort comes from the fact that the research often reveal how closely we are connected to other species. Hence an often scornful and derisive dismissal of such research.

The thing I really like about science is a total willingness to accept the possibility of imperfection in research and be constantly seeking greater knowledge and understanding, no matter how well we think we already understand something. There is peer review. A breakthrough can mean entire bodies of data and research are discarded. There are other scientists that may see a flaw in how something was done and set about doing the research in a better way, motivated by the possibility of flawed data. It is likely Goodall's work will be updated and improved upon and that we might find a better explanation of the situation you described.

To hammer the point home, other, non-scientific systems seem much less open to criticism, or improvement. They are more interested in proving they are right and less interested in learning new things and attaining a greater understanding. I hope all that makes sense. I composed this in this tiny little wall box and it is very easy to make big mistakes.

Warmest regards.

Anne wrote:
Thanks very much for your long thoughtful response, Irv. Yes, it all makes sense to me.

One thing about the Goodall example, I'd just like you to know that I wasn't judging Jane for any possible negative outcome resulting from her great scientific efforts, even if this look at the given scenario were to hold water. As you say, human fallibility and imperfection are inevitably part of the whole picture. And I just love the idea that most scientists are truly open to understand if and just how their hypotheses can be disproved... and even better, *seek* examples of how a cherished finding can be proven inadequate. What I was trying to look at, through the Goodall example, was how, by actually being an integral part of the experiment, rather than purely passive observer, one might be able to assess things in a way that the clinical scientist (if that's the right term) is not able to penetrate. Given that both methods are subject to some degree of human fallibility, I'm thinking that this might add some weight to the possibility of Jane going ahead, given the wealth of knowledge she has about apes, as well as our genetic similarities, to learn that much more by stepping into that world of primates as carefully and fully as she can. This being a credible way of assessing and understanding them, in a way that disassociated science can't quite fathom.

About the protective nature of those who are trying to prove themselves, and their alternative approaches, to science... I guess that's understandable given that I think current scientific methodology really is king, and others might be trying to demand some rightful place in that kingdom... but certainly not to the extent that this compromises the integrity of their work or establishes unwillingness to just be open. I can't help but think that the need for recognition passed down from on high might be more the issue here than how truly viable the new findings are. It seems perfectly fine to me to come across really valuable understandings, and not *have* to be acknowledged by those in the current high echelons of scientific respectability. There is something to be said though, for the rightful place of speaking truth to power.

Thanks so much for this exchange, Irv... it's been very helpful. - Anne

Irv wrote:
Anne, you wrote...>>What I was trying to look at, through the Goodall example, was how, by actually being an integral part of the experiment, rather than purely passive observer, one might be able to assess things in a way that the clinical scientist (if that's the right term) is not able to penetrate. Given that both methods are subject to some degree of human fallibility, I'm thinking that this might add some weight to the possibility of Jane going ahead, given the wealth of knowledge she has about apes, as well as our genetic similarities, to learn that much more by stepping into that world of primates as carefully and fully as she can. This being a credible way of assessing and understanding them, in a way that disassociated science can't quite fathom.<<


I suspected that's where you were going :-) And you know what? I don't think it is such a ridiculous idea. But it isn't conventional science. Perhaps a new branch of science can be created? A sort of intuitive/psychological/philosophical branch that readily acknowledges its inferiority to the established method, but is there to provide possible insights the regular method simply can't given its essential and impartial nature.

One of the reasons I go along with this is I feel I, myself, have some of those intuitive and philosophical qualities. I think it was Richard Dawkins, in his "The God Delusion" made the observation that scientists make terrible philosophers - or words to that effect-. Dawkins even went on to admire the perspective of an early 20th century philosopher whose name escapes me. When discussing how the sun appears to go around the earth despite the reverse being true, the philosopher in question asked; How should it be perceived then? Something like that.

Philosophers can provide a different perspective and insight. I like to entertain the thought, perhaps it is a delusion, that I have some of those qualities.

'BestM.

Anne wrote:
"I suspected that's where you were going :-)" I think you give me a tad too much credit here, Irv. I suspected we were headed this way too, but only because I know how to follow the scent of a thing. Being one of those people who's path, however deliberate, is often "unencumbered by the thought process", as click & clack would say, I can't say that there was anything planned, or contrived about having gotten to this place, where we find a way to meet, in the end. There's a grace and beauty to this natural, not forced, progression which could be a good example for those who can't fathom how two disparate parties CAN actually find their way to some common ground, despite the tendency to represent polar realities.




Women are from Venus - Men are from Mars

I’ll paste here a segment of a letter I wrote to an NPR friend, as a way to show my particular view of this phenomenon:

“…I love to sit back and watch you guys party it up here, and your ruff and tumble way especially. I know that my attitude and input can be like dousing the coals in that locomotive as it barrels along, and so I happily hang back. I love that you come out and say I'm too sweet to get stuck in, because you do everything with such great heart ... Lionheart? And I love that you and I are night and day that way. It's like you're the poster child for high testosterone and I'm that for estrogen.

I know you might not be able to stand (or sit still for) the methodical calm of my perspective here, but I want to talk to your science head a bit. Over the last 3 yrs. or so I've heard a couple of spots on NPR that look into what it's like for people to be both super saturated with estrogen and then with testosterone. One was about a woman who'd undergone a sex change to male, and the other was a story about a man, with
some kind of illness which left him completely without testosterone and instead high estrogen for a time. I'm thinkin'
it would be a mistake to go on here about the intricacies and beauty of what these people had to say about this and all that this reveals about the basic nature of being masculine and feminine. Lets just say that, it was much easier for the person who was born female to really enjoy that time spent in super-high estrogen mode than it was for the male. This very naturally masculine person really missed that drive, that passion, the muscle behind his churning motor, so much, that his description of looking at the world through the eyes of high estrogen was lifeless: "Everything was beautiful... that paper cup is beautiful, that dead tree, that weird interaction those people had is beautiful." But he didn't relish this calm and amazing viewpoint like the sex change person did, it was empty and dead-pan when he relayed this to the interviewer.

I get your drive, … and your fire, your power-packed play, and need to wrestle... it's beautiful.”

There’s so much to be looked at and said about the full spectrum of masculine and feminine… where they meet, where they don’t, and places of real androgyny. I’d heard something a while back about how the more united and respectful the relationship is between the men and women of a culture, the less likely they are to be a warring nation. I find this to be a very interesting and hopeful theory… maybe pointing to the light at the end of the tunnel.



Religion, Spirituality, and the Human Condition

I’m going to flesh this out by offering here a conversation I had with my NPR friend, Jerry:

Nice to hear from you, Jerry! I feel like one of those critters in that old cartoon (were they chipmunks?) where the two of them hang-out all the time being super polite to each other, "Oh! no, no ,no.. pardon me! I didn't thank you enough..." Really, the Serenity Prayer thing is/was right on. And so is the advice to take in, and embellish with, all the funny, humor, and humility I can. It's so great to be anchored in serenity and look out, as well as in, with an open sense of wonder and good humor... and of course integrity too!

But this little sidestep away from our seeming ability to main-line our communiqué pretty naturally, is a good lead-in to the dance of personal brew and Zen. So... given the real value and greater freedom of the Zen perspective (when it comes to not getting caught-up in the distortions of our personal baggage, and just being human), I'm wanting to look at the need and importance of "the baggage" and what this has to offer too. I think of the personal brew, or baggage, as being our homework, so to speak. The more we can deliberately take up those things that trip us up, trigger, torment, or overwhelmingly seduce us (addiction), etc., the more we can untangle the chains that hold us back, and unravel the secrets which hold the key to our greatest strengths. So, the compassionate and clean understanding of the Zen perspective is essential to not getting too tangled and lost in our own shortcomings, but the tangle of what isn't yet freed-up in our unique piece of the whole human puzzle... getting to that and releasing, healing that, is what it's all about. I think that's what we're all here for... to work that out until we're freed-up enough to help other people with their work. It's not about freeing one's self up from being in this physical human dilemma, but more about being so truly in our physical and very personal experience enough (with compassion and understanding) to bring real freedom to this... within the personal/physical. Heaven on Earth sort of thing... back to The Garden, and all. I actually tend to think that "heaven and hell" are a human creation, the icons that describe extreme polarity, which exist right here on Earth... and that we've all experienced both, to some degree.

And thanks for saying I'm "down to Earth", Jerry. I think it must take another fringe-dweller to see that. I'd love to see what you think... Is this perception, above, what Zen is actually all about, and I just didn't realize the embrace of selfness is as important to this art as learning how to step away from personal trappings to gain more clarity and freedom?... or have I actually paired Zen up with what it was created to avoid?

Jerry wrote:
Hi Anne !! Yes,..indeed,..chipmunks,..you crack me up :)

Gotta stay crazy ya know. Yeah, that Zen-baggage-entanglement-confusion thing....I think a lot of the trick is to 'move through' the Zen state in an advantageous mode, while being cognisant of the issues that may perplex you, but, at the same time not become to embroiled/consumed by adversities/perplexities that may encumber you in the process. It is true we can't help others without feeling good about ourselves in our own skins. I think as you do about that man made concept of heaven and hell. Many of us have been taught that a loving God will burn us up in hell forever if we anger him. I am having a little problem with that one. I am OK with God, but I have some reservations about some human/man-made ideas on the subject. I think religion is man-made and spirituality is God-given. You are right about experiencing both Heaven and Hell on Earth. I think if we come to terms with our own realities we stand a much better chance of experiencing the Heaven on Earth part of the equation. I think you have it down pretty-right-on-good. The Garden you speak of is available to us in many ways if we are willing to seek. The Zen state allows me to confront what I wish to avoid and come to terms with. Self revelation is the key to what ails me, allows me to heal and move through to a higher plane of existence. To error is human so I just stumble along with that thought in mind and do my best....sometimes I'm a bona fide nit wit, but we gotta just keep chuggin' along :) Be happy and get all the funny you can !!

Anne wrote:
Absolutely beautiful addition to the Etheridge/Obama thread, Jerry! Here's to hoping the majority will really take this in and strengthen their ability to see things as they are.

I'm curious about your religious roots, Jerry, if you have any. Were you raised with any particular religious backdrop? Keeping the unobtrusive poetic faith here! - Anne

Jerry wrote:
Hi Anne ! Thank you !! and..so good to hear from you. Religious background ?!..how to put this...extremely varied.


Origins based in European Catholicism and traveled thru your 'regular' North American protestant disciplines. I have studied theology quite a bit along with the historic implications of faith, it's relationship to war, and all that stuff. I have come to the conclusion that I am not a religious person as is generally defined, but a deeply spiritual person who believes in God. Begging to be blessed with optimism, I am a Seeker of Enlightenment which reinforces my desire to maintain a humanitarian nature. I have currently been studying the works of Paramahansa Yoganada and I have learned how to observe my place in the Universe and communicate with my creator. In many respects, my spiritual consensus gives a 'perch of observance' that allows me to have compassion enough, to somehow rise above the fray of the moment....it doesn't ALWAYS work that way, but I give it my best shot. I would say there is a strong Ancient Eastern Philosophy present in my current realm of thought. I have studied such things as my existence in the classical universe as well as the quantum universe, and I do not necessarily live here on Earth alone. I am a part of the Cosmos and look to my Mother Earth as the giver of life. I am deeply concerned with the deterioration of the human experience on Earth and truly believe that no Earthly leadership serves mans' best interests. Therefore, I draw upon my spiritual philosophy to persevere, and weather the storm of existing among the humans :) On the aggregate, I would venture to say the human race is actually quite mad and eternally hell bent on self destruction, ...I find this disturbing to say the least...I keep praying for a speedy recovery. I do my best not to "post out of character"...but I still get a little weird from time to time... (it's that late 60's-early 70's biker era slipping in)... still,.... we gotta pray for peace. Be well. Jerry

Anne wrote:
Thanks so much for all the background info., Jerry. I thought you must be classically well educated in this way. I'm not... but that hasn't stopped me from postulating about what this or that religious/spiritual icon or myth is really trying to point to, in essence.

"I am deeply concerned with the deterioration of the human experience on Earth and truly believe that no Earthly leadership serves mans' best interests." I think this is a really important statement, and it ties back into some of our other posts. I completely agree with this, but I want to clarify what I'm seeing here. I talked about a Zen experience-of-being walking in tandem with our uniquely personal baggage or stew, which is our piece of the human condition. I'm seeing "the deterioration of the human experience" as being the reality manifested by those who are entrenched in this human experience in a way that does not allow them to see, or make space for, what the truly enlightened aspects of spirit have to offer. And because of the heavy blow that so many organized religions have dealt to humanity, real freedom, and spiritual truth, many are so caught-up in the damage done, that they shun the much needed input from spirit because of how people equate this with the amazingly flawed, power-hungry, God of condemnation that the "Bible thumpers" hail to. To the extent that people are able to be open to spirit's input, they gain the tools needed to bring that in and transform their own experience, which then directly translates to improvement of this entrenched Human Condition. In what I'm trying to clarify here, spirit is not separate from the person. It is simply the essence, or spirit, or higher self of that person. Not that there aren't many other spiritual influences that we need to help guide us out of this mess. Just that, by getting in touch our own essence and spirit, and engaging that within our human experience, just as we've touched on before, is an essential part of this healing of the Human Condition.

So I look for ways to try and make this more available to people. And one way is to take up the most commonly held beliefs and stories within religious dictates and present them in a light that I think (I know, who am I to do this!!! right?) might be a bit closer to the essence of what was being offered originally. I can see anyone's first reaction being one of "incredulous blasphemy!", but how long can we go on with such a huge slice of Humanity locked in the chains of something that hasn't been allowed to evolve in a natural and healthy way... and which may very well have been grossly misconstrued in the first place? Would you be willing to look over some of these things with me?

Jerry wrote:
Made it back...got your message :) I think your interpretation of the "deterioration" thing I was talking about is on the button. The enlightenment aspects of what spirit is, and has to offer, is sorely missing by those entrenched as you describe. (This is one place leadership really drops the ball.) I believe organized religion has really let us all down. I remember a term paper I did on the history of religion and its place- influence on war...it was a very long term paper....not a pretty picture. There are some rather distasteful aspects around the origins of any given religious order. Hypocrisy is rampant in this respect and I find (as I think you do) much damage has been done in the name of God. To a great extent much spirit has been lost to the narrow confines of specific orders. I find your words speak well to the way it is. I admire your statement referring to the essence of self/spirit as an important part of the healing of the human condition. Looking for ways to make this available to others, (as you speak of), one can manage quite nicely (as you do), by being who you are in an open way, and leading by example of action as well as the spoken word. Maybe if enough of us do it, ..it will catch on.


God is everywhere and is the lifeforce of the Universe.

I like your reference on the "incredulous blasphemy" thing. Well,..I'm really good at that. My spiritual composition is absolutely not normal by any means :) And, yes, I am willing to look with you. I believe you to be right on about the evolution of our spiritual concepts. The dictates, teachings, and "facts" handed down through thousands of years must be put/taken into context. There is good stuff, bad stuff, and stuff that is flat out wrong. We gotta separate the fairy tales from reality. I am very sure that I am seen as a heathen by many religious persuasions....and if so, it must remain as it is.
My position is that for humans to have a future on Earth we must do our best to rectify the spiritual bankruptcy that is (in my opinion) at the source of conflict. Although the ancient Greeks believed in many Gods, they also had an essential concept as do I...maybe I have said it before....
...."Man as a part of the Cosmos, depends for Life and Consciousness, upon the Fire of the Universe."

The people of Earth most literally cannot see the forest for the trees. As an idealist, I can only imagine how good it could be if everyone stopped long enough to look up and out to the heavens, and take stock of their place in space, time, and the Universe in which we live. My energy vibrations are working on it every day....'nuf said Anne...that's a book. When I get started I tend to go with the flow on this "item"...it is a big deal for me. I don't find too many people "on this page."
Keep it coming.....be well. Peace. jerry

Anne wrote:
Hi Jerry! Getting right down to it... "Looking for ways to make this available to others, (as you speak of), one can manage quite nicely (as you do), by being who you are in an open way, and leading by example of action as well as the spoken word. Maybe if enough of us do it, ..it will catch on." I know what you're saying here - well done. By saying I want something to be more available, I don't mean going out and promoting this, marketing it, or broadcasting it in any way. In fact, I tend to think the whole conversion thing, with missionaries and all, could be one of the biggest key factors in the down-fall of truly enlightened offerings. No spiritual awakening can be forced. It's only when a person opens up, or reaches out, of their own free will, to take up and assimilate what's always been right there waiting, which truly allows for a healthy and graceful awakening/embracing of spirit. (Now I could have said: ...which truly allows for the Grace of God to shine through and within. But I've always had a hard time using the term "God" because I find it hard to do so without conjuring up all the things which have been tagged on and misconstrued about God...which isn't something I want to be referencing. I'd kind-of rather go with the Star Wars version, "The Source" [my mistake - plug in the “Force” there], since it congers an image that isn't laden with centuries of distortion. But I'll just go with whatever feels right for the moment.) Anyway! Yes! if the true wisdom of spirit is force-fed by religion, then you end up going backwards and layering in complicated distortions that then need to be undone before actually making headway toward true spiritual awareness. So, by just having this discussion, I think we're doing our part to resonate these things in a way that can be heard by those who have ears for it.

So I'm looking at Adam & Eve, and the forbidden fruit:
We were in a park last summer when a group of religious people, who had set themselves up with a powerful sound system at the other end of the park, started up a Holy Roller type sermon. As I was being bombarded by what seemed to me like abusive crap echoing out of loudspeakers, it occurred to me how the concept of "the knowledge of good and evil casting Adam & Eve out of the Garden of Eden" might be more purely viewed.

The apple (forbidden fruit) was symbolic of a form of knowledge which was not yet present. It was only this knowledge that made something which was idyllic into something that was, all of a sudden, not okay. In fact, it brought shame and torment. I'm willing to bet, that the type of knowledge this points to is the discerning, judging mind of entrenched Humanity without the wisdom and grace of spirit. Once people began to use their Human minds alone to apply value judgments to life's events and ways of being, we saw the beginning of a polarization which cemented itself into "good & evil". In this way, it's not really a person's actions that determine good or evil as much as the application of judgment. It's "the need to discern in order to polarize" itself, which cast humanity out of the blissful natural space of not applying judgment and condemnation, instead of just seeing things, truly, for what they are, with wisdom and compassion. That it's the mind's need to dominate, and use knowledge and reason (in a contrived way) to isolate wrongness, call that evil, and condemn, banish, or nail this to a tree, which has thrown us out of "God's Grace".

It seemed ironic that the preacher, who was busy jabbing his finger threateningly at the evil in people and the world, and ranting about the need for people to repent... if seen in the light I've just presented, would itself be the embodiment of evil.

Jerry wrote:
Yes Anne ...I like the 'The Source' concept too. Some people prickle up and turn off when the "God" word is used. Correct me if I am wrong here, but IF I understand what you say about organized religion and it's way of jamming spirituality down your throat....Spiritual concepts don't come with the fear tactics used by the ordered disciplines....it brings to mind that even George Carlin, (heathen that he was :),...reminded us of the paradox of an all-loving God who is vengeful enough to send the 'bad ones' to a place of burning eternal damnation.


When you told me about the religious 'loud speaker people' I immediately go into my 'holy crap' mode....followed by my Gandhi mode.....I can't help but have some compassion for these poor, poor, misguided, well-meaning, flat out crazy people. In a way it reminds of the religious-God-War-Mechanisms of the Middle East....complete insanity.
My impression is that those who scream the loudest, pounding the Bible with an unsolicited presence, are the ones ya gotta look out for.....this rabid intensity has lost spiritual focus and is drawing energy from a spiritual existence. This where I open my eyes real wide, look sideways, and raise an eyebrow.

Your thoughts on the product of the forbidden fruit I find to be very appropriate. The Devil is not necessarily the one that made me "do it". Judgements and values are very different across cultural borders, therefore spiritual concepts of 'good & evil' are very different...quite often, polar opposites. The evidence is in the daily news. I can't help but think that the organized religions of the world, and their polarizing affects, have done far more damage than good overall. But, hey, I'm just one nutjob out there with a politically incorrect opinion....what can I say ?

I agree about the irony of the finger pointing pulpit pounder warning us to embrace repentant ways, or suffer the consequences...is this compassion or a smug warning ? I must recall here the concepts of Christianity about 'the right to judge'...and the little thing like, "Let he who is without sin cast the first stone".....I must also insert here that I feel a good deal of 'benevolence and humility' has lost in the context of overpowering voices trying to impose 'righteous agendas'.

I think your thoughts on the essence of human spiritual roots, and nuance of the following/expanding results are well appraised. To become enlightened in such a fashion as you are, would do well to serve the best interests of those troubled souls in conflict. ( i.e. most of the planet )

I often think of what a grand Planet-Place in the Cosmos we would have to live on, if humans had the ability to live a truly spiritual existence. The totality of the Universe is overwhelming when I look to it. From it I draw my strength.

I simply must find some inappropriate twisted humor in all of this....it will probably become more evident as time goes by :) :) Don't hesitate to staighten me out if I didn't "get you" right....you and your critter are a cool picture..I'll find a good one for me someday...mine are never good :)....Be well...NAMESTE.

Anne wrote:
I do believe you understand me just perfectly, Jerry... and turned over a few nuggets of interest along the way. I wonder if I should go have a look here at those things you touched on, or go a little further into the concept vs. reality of "God"? Hmmmmm... I guess just a brief thought about God: Peggy wrote something to Irv about how W actually thinks God is talking to him. (I actually don't think W does believe this at all, but instead just uses God as an excuse to go to war. What's new?! But that's beside the point.) I think that some people really do hear voices, but this doesn't mean it's God's voice per se. Different people's impressions of what God is, is intriguing to me. I really wouldn't want to judge or change any of these, because what people come up with is often symbolic in an important, if not sacred, way. So in offering my own perspective, I don't mean to dispel any others. It just seems to me that trying to truly grasp God would be like trying to wrap your mind around the whole universe (and beyond! :) as you and I seem to be trying to do. And that man being made in God's image comes down to all of physical manifestation (as well as dark matter/dark energy) being God experiencing, expressing, and exploring itself. So in that way, Jesus might have recognized himself as being God's son, but so are all the rest of us, including animals and the natural world. Well! guess I didn't do a very good job of paring that down into something brief!

So anyway, absolutely!... I don't buy the scare tactics used by anybody's disciples or other disciplines. It may be true that, in a cause and effect sort of way, we reap what we sow, but threatening people with condemnation and Hell has no beneficial aspects to it at all, that I can see. It may help someone to understand: if you do that, them most likely, this will be the result... but from a place of wisdom and patience, and the strength to respectfully prevent catastrophe if that's the most likely outcome. But I don't believe fear mongering is ever in our best interest.

And I guess I feel the need to say something positive about the organized religions of the world, because I know many people truly have benefited in various ways. But I'd have to say, that this has more to do with each individuals unique personal efforts, rather than being due to anyone who has pushed an agenda.

So where is that twisted, inappropriate humor anyway?... I know it's around here somewhere... Anybody?

The Forbidden Fruit

Looking into the concept of Adam & Eve, and the forbidden fruit:
We were in a park last summer when a group of religious people, who had set themselves up with a powerful sound system at the other end of the park, started up a Holy Roller type sermon. As I was being bombarded by what seemed to me like abusive crap echoing out of loudspeakers, it occurred to me how the concept of "the knowledge of good and evil casting Adam & Eve out of the Garden of Eden" might be more purely viewed.

The apple (forbidden fruit) was symbolic of a form of knowledge which was not yet present. It was only this knowledge that made something which was idyllic into something that was, all of a sudden, not okay. In fact, it brought shame and torment. I'm willing to bet, that the type of knowledge this points to is the discerning, judging mind of entrenched Humanity without the wisdom and grace of spirit. Once people began to use their Human minds alone to apply value judgments to life's events and ways of being, we saw the beginning of a polarization which cemented itself into "good & evil". In this way, it's not really a person's actions that determine good or evil as much as the application of judgment. It's "the need to discern in order to polarize" itself, which cast humanity out of the blissful natural space of not applying judgment and condemnation, instead of just seeing things, truly, for what they are, with wisdom and compassion. That it's the mind's need to dominate, and use knowledge and reason (in a contrived way) to isolate wrongness, call that evil, and condemn, banish, or nail this to a tree, which has thrown us out of "God's Grace".

It seemed ironic that the preacher, who was busy jabbing his finger threateningly at the evil in people and the world, and ranting about the need for people to repent... if seen in the light I've just presented, would itself be the embodiment of evil.

Bring It Home

What I mean by this can be seen and applied in a number of ways… many more than what I’ll cover here.

Bringing it home, on a spiritual and psychological level: A lot of us feel passionately about things going on in the world around us. We make efforts to support and further what seems really important, while taking a stand against those things which threaten our cherished strong-hold, or which just simply work against our own sense of well-being. This way that people engage with life, and the established structures around us, is great, and often fruitful. There’s a lot of learning, growth, and progress to be experienced this way. And in the earlier stages of a person’s life, I think it’s particularly important to interact with others, and the world, in a way which isn’t too preoccupied with looking inward, but is more about just letting life (from within as well as externally) take you where it will, as each person finds their own way and place. The shift from being more outwardly active (as a way to really anchor into being here) to an effort at the understanding and appreciation of how this plays out inside us as well, is most beneficial when a person gets to a place of just wanting to go there as a natural part of their own process. So from a psychological or spiritual perspective, when a person is really wanting to look at, and sort out, what’s going on within that inner landscape, and grasp the key this has to offer in terms of true freedom… this site is geared toward you.

The Power Grid: With energy concerns being what they are today, it makes sense to me to do what we can to develop whatever local resources we have, as much as possible, in order to move away from the global market, oversized power grids, and dependence on foreign (or any) oil. This would be a step in the direction of more personal/local responsibility, greater independence, and freedom. Not that local energy grid systems wouldn’t be connected to a larger network… only that, given a crash of the grid in one area, this would be less likely to effect people on a much bigger scale. Conversely, lots of local systems (made up of diversified energy sources) able to function independently, could then more readily shore-up areas experiencing failure.
Agriculture and Town Planning: This pans out in basically the same way as the power grid. By planning a more locally secure (in terms of personal involvement and general good will), eco-smart and independent township, where whatever food can be, is grown locally, and many live within easy transit or walking distance to a more safe and social town environment… I think we’d really gain a lot on many levels.

In politics, physical health, diet, religion… the same basic concept applies: Try to be well informed, ask questions, trust in yourself and your personal perspective, do what you can to support this… and try to be very aware of what you’re doing when you impose your will, and your way, on another.

I believe it’s essential to be respectful of others free will. Our children need us to be very present, aware, and conscientious in our responsibility to them until they are adults. Our will is actually necessarily melded to theirs as a way to usher them into being a fully capable young adult. But beyond that, we have no right to impose our will on anyone unless they have proven to be incapable of respecting the rights and well being of others. And so this is where we run head-long into a dire conundrum within the human condition: who decides when someone is doing wrong by another… and does this include a person doing wrong to themselves? I offer one opinion on this in the “Forbidden Fruit” section.